The importance of love making has been lost for younger generations. With all of the books, tips, and shops out there, sex has become something to be enjoyed among two people, regardless of intimacy. But love making is actually a vital live line to your relationship. Men will not be happy in a relationship without sex. Women will not be happy in a relationship without intimacy. Love making is both.
In todays society, sex has become meaningless. Rather than attempting to create a special connection, partners are only out to please themselves. In love making, intimacy and sharing is the main purpose. When two people engage in love making, they are not attempting to please themselves, but rather please their spouse. As you can see, there is a big difference between love making and sex.
Numerous studies have been performed by marriage counselors and psychologists. These studies showed that at least eighty percent of the couples that end up in marriage counseling or divorce court do not engage in love making. Granted, love making is not the root of the problems of these relationships. However, it does play a large role in keeping the relationship alive, even when problems are present.